Has your husband ever asked you to touch yourself in front of him? Maybe he did ask, but you were just uncomfortable. Maybe he hinted, but you thought you couldn't do it. I hope after reading this article, you will reconsider this matter.

Most men are visual creatures. Women are usually taught to do things that are visually stimulating, such as wearing sexy lingerie or undressing for them. The husband likes his wife to show off her body. When he sees her actually masturbating, he feels even more sexually aroused.

"How would he look at me? Just thinking about it makes me feel embarrassed and ashamed! How could I touch myself like that in front of my husband?" ？ "Will he think I'm a slut?" This notion is completely wrong! Stop thinking like this. On what basis do you think he would think it's inappropriate for me to do this for him?

I assure you that this will be one of the most sexy scenes he has ever witnessed. It might make him stop in his tracks and gaze at you intently. You might even make him enslaved for life! It might ignite a never-extinguished flame of passion in his heart. He will never be the same person he used to be. This will be the fuel for his long-term motivation.

You don't have to go all out from the beginning and try to complete all the actions at once. The next time you have foreplay with your husband, you can slightly move your hands downward. When he kisses you, massage your own breasts. If he turns his head to look at you, give your breasts to him. You can lick and suck while holding your breasts. At this time, your lover might be very eager for you. Now, move your hands downward to the inner side of your thighs. Don't be too forceful from the start. If you want, you can stroke along the labia. If your husband notices and starts staring at you, don't be surprised.

If you feel uncomfortable with this, then let him do it for you. Let him place his hand under yours. Let him start touching you. You can let him guide you to do what he wants you to experience. Close your eyes and stop worrying about how you should be. Just follow your feelings. Let that moment touch you. If you think it's necessary, you can moan or take deep breaths. Open your mouth and let your passion be heard.

If this makes you feel uncomfortable, then tell him in advance. Let him give you some verbal affirmation. Let him tell you when he likes you, when he looks hot, and when he drives you crazy. Let him whisper something in your ear that can get you excited and keep you going. You definitely don't want to suddenly retreat into your shell. When your husband is lying next to you or even helping you, this really makes things easier.

While he is giving you oral sex, you might as well try self-stimulation. The next time he lowers his head, try using your hands and fingers to caress your entire body. If you like, you can caress your own breasts and squeeze your nipples. Let him see that you are enjoying his attention as much as your own. Let your fingers move downward and start circling around your clitoris. If his mouth is occupied, put your fingers into his mouth and tell him not to stop. When you are self-stimulating, he might continue to insert his fingers into your body. What a sexy scene you will create for him!

When you actively engage in sexual activity, you will find that your sexual experience will be much better. If you still don't have the courage to try touching yourself for your husband, then I encourage you to think again. How wonderful an event this is! Who else in the world can receive this gift from you? No one! This is one of the most private and intimate things we can do. Can you imagine how special the feeling would be for him to see all this?

Here are some more suggestions that might help you perform better in front of your dear husband. Get ready to surprise him with many delights now!

First of all, be creative and make use of the transitional period during sex. If your husband stops to get the condom or lubricant, take this time to touch yourself. While he is putting on the condom or lubricant, show him something to look at. Spread your legs and rub or touch yourself in front of him with your fingers. If you are in a well-lit room, use your fingers to spread your labia and let him see his target. Always remember, men are visual creatures and enjoy seeing something sexy.

Another transition is the change of posture. Switching to the rear-entry position or the rear-entry position is a great choice for you. When you are on all fours, extend your hands between your legs and let him see you touching yourself again. Tell him how wet you are and how eager you are for him to enter you. Although it's only for a few seconds, it's okay. All the extra effort you put in will visually stimulate him.

Another method you can try is to perform for him. This can be described as "adding the cherry on the cake". After he finishes a long day of work and returns home, ask him if he would like to have some entertainment at home. Tell him that you have been thinking about him all day. Tell him that you want him to know how sexy you have become because of this.

At this point, he should have already become erect. Have him sit on the chair or bed in front of you and start undressing. Make sure there is sufficient lighting so that he can see! (And also so that you can see his reaction.) Then use your fingers, or even a sex toy, to caress yourself. Expose yourself to him so that he can see what you are doing. If you usually just satisfy yourself by rubbing your clitoris, then I suggest that you insert at least one or two fingers anyway. He will enjoy watching your fingers (or sex toy) disappear into your vagina. This will cause some obvious physiological reactions in him. You can watch him struggle to pull the zipper down and relieve the pressure. If you can reach climax all the way, then do it! Have him watch you. Maybe your husband is already very excited and has joined you before you reach climax!

I suggest you get a transparent shower curtain. The shower room is an ideal place for you to fully enjoy the pleasure of taking a shower. Find some time to have him sit and watch you bathe. Rub soap generously on your chest and other parts of your body. Use your hands and fingers to seductively tempt him. Drop the soap on the ground so that you have to turn around and bend over to pick it up. While bending over, reach out and touch yourself. Then, you can use the shower head to reach your climax. I had to install a special shower head for my wife so that she could enjoy sex more directly. You can lift your legs and let him watch you use your fingers to masturbate. Waterproof vibrators are also very suitable for this kind of play. The question is, can your husband sit there and watch? Or does he have to join you?

Am I forcing you out of your comfort zone now? If you can accept it, this will be a huge blessing for your husband. I encourage you to pray about it. See if you can find some special things to bless your husband in the next week. Then come back and tell us!