As a 25-year-old (almost 26) who has never dated (and has never even been dated), it's hard to believe that there really is someone out there who is suitable for you. You keep trying again and again, but unfortunately, every time you fail. Your efforts are always in vain.

Exploring this website is both inspiring and sometimes frustrating. This is great because it shows me things to look forward to. But what's frustrating is that it seems that every day I'm getting further and further away from falling in love and getting married. As a virgin, this is increasingly depressing. I know that if I don't get married, I won't have a sex life, no biological children, and so on. Although this makes me very sad, I know it's still better than settling down and experiencing heartache and heartbreak.

I have used dating websites and developed new hobbies (such as horseback riding, learning the violin, Cosplay, etc.), but none of these have made much progress. However, I really enjoyed these activities, and my purpose for doing them was not to find a potential partner, but to make friends. Nevertheless, even after maintaining friendly relationships week after week, I failed to truly connect with anyone... and most of them were women, not Christians, etc.

So my question is... How did you two get to know each other?

I think I'm looking for some ideas on how to get in touch with those who have served this group of people as married individuals. Also, please don't just say "He'll show up when I'm not looking." This is such a cliché phrase that it makes me angry rather than relieved.

Postscript: I am particularly interested in the stories of the couples who met outside the church, because I truly feel that these stories have not been adequately portrayed, and they are more inspiring to me because:

1) I participate in the activities of the local church at home, so this is definitely not an option for meeting boys.

2) As I mentioned in several other articles, I once returned to the church to meet with young people of my age. To be honest, each person was either a woman or was in a relationship or was married.

I am looking forward to hearing everyone's story, and I would like to thank you all for taking the time to read this article 😊