So, you have been following my content and then realize: "Wow, I might be a bit eccentric!" Or, as my little community affectionately calls it, I'm a "Roman" (thanks to the mistake of the word "wrong'en" in the automatic subtitles - now this word has become a popular term). Welcome, enthusiasts of eccentricities! We are about to enter a world full of fun and exploration. Whether you are a newcomer to the eccentricity community or just want to try something different, you have come to the right place.

But what now? you ask. How can I find people who are like me? Let me tell you.

Fet Life; On this wonderful and unique website, you can create a profile, explore your uniqueness, participate in forum discussions, and perhaps most importantly, you can find local events.

Munches; Local non-sexual social activities for people with sexual preferences! Munches is an excellent way to get involved. You can find the local Munches list on Fet Life.

Alternative markets like Swamp, BBB, LAM. If you are anxious, this is an opportunity to observe from the sidelines without the pressure of immediate social interaction.

Other Kink activities; Most of the Kink friends I have met come from workshops and lectures. My favorite one was a conscious Kink workshop hosted by a Tantric Kink practitioner named Sarah. She will train me to become a Tantric Kink practitioner in September, and I hope to pass on this love by holding my own workshops. I have also attended seed lectures and festivals likeourgasm, where there were a lot of wonderful Kink enthusiasts, and the fun was endless.

Feeld App; Provides dating services for people with sexual preferences. This app is great because it allows you to list your interests and is more accepting of various relationship patterns, such as polyamory or swapping partners.

Fabswingers; Another website for those looking to find people who are into swinging/horns or just want to have quirky connections.

Parties and events; If you are new to this circle, I won't go to parties directly because it might make you feel overwhelmed. However, depending on your preferences, there are some scheduled events you can participate in when you are ready. For example, even wearing formal clothes, killing a kitten is a form of sexual behavior; while "The Torture Garden" is for fetish enthusiasts and has strict fetish dress requirements.

Finally, I suggest that to find like-minded people, you need to maintain a certain open attitude. I'm not saying you should reveal all your secrets, but when the topic comes up, being honest about your sexual preferences can not only reduce your shame but also naturally attract like-minded people. Of course, some closed-minded "herbivores" might feel uncomfortable, but that's their loss. Anyone who doesn't accept you is not worth your time and effort.

This is my list. Do you have any other methods? I'd love to hear them.