To be honest, the clitoris is almost insignificant to us. It is just a small organ that is more highly regarded than the spleen. We shouldn't be surprised either. For centuries, we have focused on the penis and the vagina until yesterday we truly discovered the clitoris. However, ancient yoga literature places the clitoris as the first chakra, also known as the base chakra (Muladhara), while Taoist philosophy considers it to contain the "million-dollar point". No, we don't intentionally pursue the spiritual level, but we love traveling. And if it's for the sake of physical health and seeking pleasure, it's even more so. Get on this train, because the destination is a powerful and profound climax.

Before we begin, what is the perineum and where is it located?

The perineum is the area corresponding to the pelvic floor. For men, it is located between the anus and the scrotum, while for women, it is situated between the anus and the external genitalia. It protects the pelvic floor muscles, blood vessels, and nerves, which are responsible for urination or erection. The perineum is very sensitive and is one of the main erogenous zones for men. However, this does not mean it cannot bring pleasure to women. The difference is that massaging the perineum of a man indirectly stimulates the prostate.

Some Eastern philosophies place the aforementioned "Million Dollar Point" at the perineum. According to legend, the name originated because this was the price revealed by the master at a specific location in the perineal area. This extremely special location, when pressed at the right time, can inhibit the ejaculation reflex, delay orgasm, and open the door to multiple orgasms in consecutive sexual encounters. Would you be willing to spend a million dollars to obtain the secret of multiple male orgasms and ejaculation control?

Some sexologists believe that pressing the perineum to delay ejaculation is not the best approach, as it may cause adverse side effects such as pelvic pain or prostate problems. Therefore, one should avoid squeezing, fondling, licking or using vibrators to achieve pleasure. This was confirmed by sexologist Ruth Gonzalez Ousset in a report published by ABC Television in 2018. According to this expert, there is a so-called L-point in the perineum, stimulating this point can "make the orgasm more gradual and progressive, but at the same time deeper and more intense".

How to stimulate the perineum with the tongue

Now that we know its location and the pleasure it entails, it's time to fully enjoy it. The ancient Egyptians regarded oral sex as an art form, and its popularity has remained strong over the centuries. But it's important to note that the focus should not be solely on the penis or the clitoris. In terms of a woman's anatomy, the labia, the vaginal opening, and the perineum also contain a large number of nerve endings.

The male body is the same. The testicles and the perineal area are the main erogenous zones that cannot be ignored. Use your mouth, tongue, and hands (unless your hands are tied up). Use your tongue to massage the glans, then move down to the testicles and the perineum. Combine oral stimulation with hand stimulation. Use your hands to caress the penis while continuing to lick the perineum. Move at a calm pace and vary the intensity and rhythm.

How to stimulate the perineum with your hands

Use a small amount of lubricant to facilitate sliding and enhance pleasure. Then apply it to the penis, scrotum and perineum. Hold the penis and stroke it until it becomes fully erect. At the same time, don't forget to gently press on the testicles (moderate pressure is sufficient, avoid overdoing it). Don't rush for results. After the excitement is fully achieved, use one hand to self-stimulate the penis, and with the other hand, use the fingertips to gently massage the perineum, giving appropriate massages but without applying excessive force.

The correct technique for stimulating the perineum

• Remember that the perineum is an erogenous zone for both men and women, although in the case of the male anatomy its massage directly stimulates the prostate.

• Stimulate it during oral sex or masturbation by using either the tongue or fingertips to caress it.

• Start with delicate movements and watch his response.

• Combining stimulation of the perineum with prostate stimulation causes intense orgasms and to achieve this comfortably there are specific toys that massage both areas simultaneously and with vibrations.

• Don't forget the lubricant.