The penis is subjected to too much pressure! They should be instructed to become erect, remain erect for a long time, and ejaculate at the right moment... No wonder so many penises suffer from "sexual dysfunction". I'm glad I don't have a penis - well, I do, but it belongs to my partner - but if I had a penis myself, I would definitely break down under pressure.

So, first of all, I would like to emphasize that it is completely fine to give the penis a rest during sexual activity. There is no need to stop everything just because the penis is not erect. You can do many other things as well: use other parts of your body, focus on other parts of your body, gaze into each other's eyes, gently touch your partner's skin with your fingers, have a chat...

Remember, when you move away from the linear love model (which includes all quantified KPIs and performance pressure) and shift to the non-linear model (where the only KPI is pleasure and connection), what truly matters is what is happening at this moment and what you are creating together at this moment. The pressure is really much less. And paradoxically, after the pressure decreases, the penis is less likely to rest, or even if it does rest, it won't be able to erect again.

So, let go of the stress! Make sure you are in a relaxed environment, spend enough time simply enjoying each other's company, immerse yourself in it, synchronize with each other, breathe slowly and deeply, and truly focus on the connection between you. Let your sexual desire gradually intensify, don't rush, and don't be stressed. Let the scent of sexual desire spread throughout your body. When your penis is inserted into your lover's body, feel it with your heart. Feel her warm and caring embrace of you. Let your love flow through your penis to her, and bring the wonderful feeling of the connection between you back to your body through the penis.

This method not only means that your penis is more likely to maintain an erection for a longer period of time, and that you are more likely to decide whether and when to ejaculate, but you will also experience more pleasure during the process. You will truly feel the pleasure of ejaculation, which is just an enjoyable part of the extended pleasure throughout the sexual act.