We finally made it.
After collecting a large number of amateur homemade sex videos that were shot since 2004, we finally hired a professional to shoot our "erotic" videos - to be exact, two segments.
I spent a long time thinking on the "Marriage Hotline" about how to handle this matter. I could write thousands of words to describe our thought process, how we found the filming team, the conversations we had with them before signing the contract, the legal measures taken to protect privacy, and the specific details of the actual shooting, etc. Here, I will provide appropriate details, but will not go beyond the boundaries.
What I want to emphasize is that all of this was carried out in secrecy, was meticulously planned, and was entirely done with the voluntary consent of both myself and Lauren. At first glance, hiring a professional team to film your and your spouse's passionate sex seems a bit exaggerated. To be honest, this is the craziest thing we have ever done. But if you take a step back and think about it, is it really that crazy? Sex is an important part of a healthy marriage. Every married couple we know has sex. They also know that we have sex. So, why should Lauren and I feel ashamed for hiring a filming crew to film what almost every happy married couple does - sex?
Through the recommendation of a reliable person, we hired a video company owned and operated by a couple. Let's call them Ashley and Dave. The recommender was a couple we knew, and they had been clients of Ashley and Dave before, so they were familiar with the situation. After several email exchanges, we met Ashley and Dave at their studio. They were about ten years younger than us, and in our opinion, they seemed like "ordinary people" of two young children. They told us that they undertake various video projects, including corporate videos, and also shoot sex videos for couples. They said that they were very selective about the couples they worked with, mainly relying on recommendations, and kept this kind of work confidential. We told them our requirements - to use 4K technology exclusively - and they told us that it could be done. The first step was to sign a confidentiality agreement. After signing the agreement, they drafted a scope of work that we agreed to, and then we signed the contract.
According to the terms of the contract, we hired Ashley and Dave to shoot two films that looked and felt like professional hardcore pornographic movies for me and Lauren. Lauren wasn't as concerned about the hardcore nature of the films as I was, but I told her that I wanted the content to be vivid and with close-up shots. She agreed. Since these films would be very explicit, we required Ashley and Dave to sign an additional confidentiality agreement. This initially caused some tension, but fortunately, they shared our emphasis on confidentiality. After several rounds of discussions, they finally signed the agreement.
The entire shooting process was extremely professional. There were no boundaries crossed and no temptations. We filmed these two scenes in their studio, in the late morning and early afternoon respectively. The studio consisted of a kitchen and a large room, with sofas, a bed and some furniture. It was extremely cold at first, but later they turned up the heating and the lights were turned on, and only then did we feel relaxed and comfortable.
Before the first shoot, Ashley did a professional makeup job on Lauren's face and breasts. In my opinion, she did the makeup a bit too heavily. Her cheeks were rosy and there was a bit of glitter powder added to the makeup. Later, we realized that in front of the camera, she was simply stunning, and Lauren looked extremely sexy and hot. Lauren had just had a full Brazilian hair removal a few days ago because she wanted her skin to look super smooth. Her private area looked absolutely beautiful. She also cut her hair and dyed it; she wanted to show her best side - and she did achieve that. That day, when the first scene started shooting, I told Lauren that she looked like she could be a porn star, and I was serious. Ashley and Dave agreed. Lauren laughed.
We were extremely nervous at the beginning. For me, the most nerve-racking part was undressing and then getting an erection! Lauren actually didn't mind undressing, but adapting to the real sexual act during the filming by the crew took some time. In the first scene, Lauren was wearing a red dress, with only a garter belt and thigh-high stockings. As soon as the camera started rolling, she was standing in the kitchen, drinking wine. At that moment, I - completely naked and with an erection - walked behind her, cupped her breasts. Then we started kissing, and her dress came off, revealing her naked body.
According to the plan, the first scene starts in the kitchen and ends on the bed. Apart from that, the script doesn't have much to say, but we did discuss some details, such as the desire for some vivid shooting angles. I wanted it to end with ejaculation (which made Lauren roll her eyes playfully). The first scene took approximately two hours to shoot, of which only about 75 minutes were sexual scenes. Later, Ashley and Dave edited the 75 minutes into a 45-minute scene.
The production team set up three cameras, bright lights and two boom microphones around us. They would occasionally interrupt and ask us to slightly adjust our positions in order to find the ideal angle or better lighting, as we wanted to capture a more realistic scene. The first scene included a pre-sexual oral sex, where I licked Lauren's private area until she reached orgasm, followed by rear-entry sex, slapping her bottom, a lot of masturbation, and finally, semen spraying on her bottom and back. What really surprised me was that, apart from being a little nervous at the beginning but it soon disappeared, Lauren was not shy at all when the first scene began.
I paid close attention to the surrounding staff - the cameras, the lights, the boom microphones, and the occasional disturbances. When my penis was in her mouth, there was a camera about two feet away. The same was true when I licked her. We rarely had the chance to not make adjustments according to the staff's instructions within five or six minutes, except for the last ten minutes, during which both she and I reached our second climax.
The entire first act was extremely passionate, and there were several moments that would leave a lasting impression throughout the entire scene. One was the moment when she sucked my penis, with her eyes fixed on the camera. (I was kneeling beside her, while she was lying down with her legs spread, self-stimulating.) Her lips wrapped around my penis, with an expression of pure enjoyment. The second was when I licked her private area. The camera captured several close-up shots of me using my tongue to lick her vagina, which looked absolutely wonderful. But what fascinated me the most was the switching shots of her face - she was clearly in a state of ecstasy, which was extremely sexy. Finally, when we were performing the reverse position, the staff captured some absolutely stunning shots - close-up shots, wide-angle shots, and even some shots that captured the close-up view of my penis being thrust inside her. The wet sounds of the sexual act during the reverse position were very intense. And the semen on her bottom and back was truly astonishing! The staff edited and enhanced the video, making her bottom and back semen shine brightly. They even enlarged the images to show the creamy liquid.
After cleaning up the scene of the first scene, the crew gave each of us a bathrobe. Then we had coffee and lunch. They brought us exquisite boxed meals, treating us to a VIP experience. During lunch, we discussed the logistics for the second scene and shared parenting stories. Sitting with Ashley and Dave, I suddenly realized that they had witnessed the most intimate interaction between me and Lauren that you could imagine. I brought this up. They were as professional as ever, remaining calm and repeatedly praising how beautiful Lauren and I looked at the ages of 46 and 47.
At my request, the plan for the second scene was to end with a frontal attack. This was a request I made to Lauren a few days before the shooting. Generally speaking, a frontal attack is not a big deal, but being caught on camera is a completely different matter. She initially refused my request and I respected her decision. But later, after lunch, she quietly pulled me aside and told me that I could do it. After undressing, we rehearsed the shooting content of the second scene together with the crew, including shooting the attack on Lauren's face, or as we put it, "shooting on Lauren's face".
The second scene begins with us waking up in the morning. The two of them are lying naked on the bed. After self-stimulation, we assume the 69 position, which is a pose we rarely try. The crew took very close shots - one shot shows her sucking my body, and another shows me licking her clitoris. After a brief discussion with the crew, Lauren straddled me and rode me in the reverse cowgirl position. Her vagina was soaked, which was enough to prove that she was having a great time.
When Lauren was riding me, the crew members gave their best performance in the filming. She leaned forward, and Dave captured some wonderful angles of her buttocks and my penis thrusting inside her vagina. Ashley then captured the wonderful angle of Lauren looking up at her while riding me. They also took some photos of our faces. When we first saw them, we felt extremely embarrassed. Have you ever seen your own expression when experiencing intense sexual pleasure? It's strange. Even so, the 12-minute reverse cowgirl-style scene shot by Dave and Ashley, including the sound, might be the most exciting 12 minutes in these two scenes!
Let's talk briefly about the audio. Both scenes were filled with heavy breathing sounds, soft moaning, and quite a lot of muttering. We didn't have much dialogue, but during the performance, some playful lines were spoken. What really stood out was the recorded sound of wet vaginal intercourse. Their audio work was extremely excellent.
Back to Act Two! After Lauren reached orgasm, it was my turn to ejaculate. I couldn't hold back. At this point, we had been filming for a full hour and a half in Act Two. Lauren was lying on her side and I was kneeling down; she took hold of my penis and sucked on it. This would be the penultimate scene of the sexual encounter. The two cameras were very close to each other, within two feet, and the third one was farther away to provide a wider perspective. The boom microphone picked up my heavy breathing, and another one picked up the wonderful sound of my oral sex.
While I was masturbating, Lauren sucked me for four minutes, bringing the second act to an end. This was a truly remarkable marital story. Just a few seconds before I ejaculated, she began to rub my penis with her thumb and index finger, while my tip was pressed against her tongue. Her gaze was fixed on me, and two cameras a few feet away recorded everything. Then I felt an urge, and the climax hit me. My semen sprayed like a rope onto her tongue and face. I almost passed out. Although the amount was not large - I had ejaculated earlier that morning - it was enough to give me a satisfying release. Her tongue and face were covered with my semen, and then she sucked me dry with her mouth. The cameras captured it all.
So, that's it. Both of these scenes are extremely explicit and very XXX. There are no details left for one to imagine. Oral sex, vaginal intercourse, masturbation, almost every detail of our bodies - anal stimulation (which I haven't mentioned above) and ejaculation - all of these are the key elements of hardcore pornographic films. Lauren and I definitely plan to shoot more videos, and we will definitely invite Ashley and Dave to do the filming.
We have the original footage, as well as two completed videos. The original footage looks quite interesting, but when I saw the two completed videos of me and Lauren, it felt like it was a professional-grade pornographic film... The main actors were us! I have to admit, even though my wife is 46 years old, she can easily be mistaken for a porn star.
The original materials and the finished videos are all locked away in a high-security safe at home - along with the USB drives containing all the homemade videos we have made since 2004. We have been discussing what our son would feel like if he ever got access to these videos. Although we hope this situation never occurs, if it does happen, at least he will know that his parents love each other and have had sexual experiences. To be honest, we are not at all ashamed of making these videos.
The cost of shooting these two videos was extremely high. The staff told us that for couples who could afford the cost, such videos were not uncommon. They said that we would be "surprised by" the number of couples they filmed and the kinds of fetish behaviors they witnessed. They said that we tended to be more on the "normal" side.
In conclusion, this was an incredible experience. We watched the videos several times and also enjoyed playing them during intimate moments.
By the way, we recommend that you watch the video of the Ashley and Dave couple who are a third-party couple. We have also watched their video. Our couple has a very good understanding of each other and feel that we can watch each other's videos without crossing the boundary due to excessive passion - although there is a lot of passion between us when watching the videos, we managed to control this boundary successfully. Comparing their videos with ours, it is clear that Ashley and Dave are top professionals. Their work is simply amazing.
