How To Become a Sex Toy Party Host
Not only are hosting sex parties fun, consulting can actually be a great side gig. There are quite a few companies out there that provide you with all the training and materials to get you going (My Secret Soiree, Pure Romance, Fantasia). It also helps if you have a natural curiosity and interest in sexual health as a prerequisite.
So, if the following sounds like you, you might want to give it a shot:
You enjoy throwing parties
You’re a fan of sex toys yourself
You’re interested in helping people understand their bodies
You have friends that are similar in these aspects
Sex Toy Party Ice Breakers
It’s all about getting comfortable. Even though sex toys are just about as common as coffee makers in our homes, it can still be a little awkward when revealing our sexual wants and desires in front of strangers. A good tactic to breaking down this awkwardness is through humor.
Here are some fun ice breaker ideas:
Name Game: Have everyone in the group think of a sexy adjective that starts with the same letter as their first name, which they will then be referred to for the rest of the night. Naughty Naomi, Frisky Fiona, Slutty Sara… the possibilities are endless and they help everyone learn each others’ names.
Never Have I Ever: I’m sure most of us have played this game even in high school. Everyone begins by holding up five fingers. You go around in a circle and each person thinks of one thing they’ve never done before (ex. “Never have I ever had a threesome”). Anyone in the group who has puts down a finger until someone is eventually out. It doesn’t have to be dirty, but it always gets there quickly and sets the mood for the night.
I Packed My Bag: This is a fun memorization game that can incorporate some items at the party. One person begins with “I packed my bag, and in it I put ___ (we’ll say a vibrator).” The next person repeats this phrase and adds an item, and so forth and so forth until a long list of sex related objects are listed.
“I packed my bag, and in it I put a vibrator, a butt plug, handcuffs, a candle, a penis ring, a dildo, and lube,” is more or less how this turns out.
If you have any other creative ideas, comment below.