We are not typical nudists. We don't wander around naked in our house, nor do we belong to any nudist group. Our friends would never guess that we occasionally like to go naked for a few days. We keep this a secret, and our children don't know about it either - this is our private matter.
I tried to think about this issue from several different perspectives, attempting to figure out why I enjoy being naked in public and why I seek out places where people are naked. I'm not someone who enjoys being naked, so it has nothing to do with being seen by others. However, being naked in front of others is indeed very pleasant, and seeing others naked is also a kind of enjoyment. I looked back on the past to see if there was anything that triggered this impulse when I was younger. My parents were open about nudity, but they didn't make it public. Where exactly did this impulse come from? I may never be able to explain it clearly.
Over the years, I have been documenting the feelings and pleasures I obtain from being naked. For me, being naked is like returning to nature, free from the constraints of worldly affairs. I feel that this is my destiny, while the conventional world becomes an outsider to me. For my wife, being naked is a way of expressing and accepting her body, free from the constraints of social standards and norms. She believes that this can help her build confidence and eventually integrate into daily life. For her, this is a healthy form of rebellion. Facing one's vulnerabilities openly can promote more sincere connections with others. I believe this can establish an atmosphere of openness and trust.
Once upon a time, we regarded nudity as ordinary and natural. If it weren't for that pesky snake, perhaps we would never have experienced the sensation of our bodies clothed? Perhaps there is something deep within our DNA that triggers a sense of pleasure when we approach the natural state.
My wife and I chose to be naked because being naked is truly liberating. The sunlight and gentle breeze caressing those areas that are often covered feel wonderful. Being with like-minded people is very relaxing. Seeing other naked people enjoying this freedom is also a kind of enjoyment. We often find that they are honest and friendly, and some even become friends. For those who want to try it, this might be unexpected, but it is definitely the most relaxing and peaceful experience you can have.
From a more practical perspective, we have specific preferences regarding the types of places we visit. We will not go to resorts or spas that allow children inside. I understand the reasoning of those parents who allow such things. For us, it is to pursue a more peaceful and relaxing experience. We will also not go to places that encourage that "way of life". I think everyone has their own thoughts, but we are very loyal to each other and have no interest in that. That is not the reason we go there. It is about sex, nudity is not, although I occasionally think about it.
If you want to be natural in these situations, here are some suggestions. Go to a place where you can dress freely and try it out. If you find it difficult, don't worry and don't feel pressured. You can wear clothes that are more revealing than usual as a step towards being naked. You can also try to do it gradually, start by being naked for one minute, then see if you can hold it for five minutes, and so on. You will soon discover that the pleasure brought by this experience will dispel fear and worry. You will wonder why you didn't do this a few years ago. My wife was a little worried at first, but after a few months, we started singing karaoke naked. (To be honest, I was more worried about singing in front of others before.)
The most important thing is to remember that people in these environments won't judge you. We have met people of all ages, backgrounds, cultures and body types. You will fit in. Also, be sure to apply sunscreen - getting sunburned in places with little sunlight is not a good thing.
Finally, let me tell you an interesting anecdote. Recently, we came across a couple who called out our names. For a minute, I didn't recognize them - I had never seen them dressed up before!