1. Consent Is Non-Negotiable
A clear "enthusiastic yes" is essential—anything less means "no." Remember the FRIES principles of consent:
Freely given (without pressure).
Reversible (can be withdrawn anytime).
Informed (full understanding of what’s involved).
Enthusiastic (a genuine "yes!").
Specific (agreement to one act ≠ blanket consent).
Pro Tip: Check in during intimacy with phrases like "You good?" Pause or stop if the response isn’t an enthusiastic yes.
2. Communication Elevates Pleasure
Open dialogue leads to more fulfilling sex. Try these phrases:
"I love when you…"
"Could we try…?"
"Not into that? What are you into?"
Starship Hack: Break the ice with playful card games.
3. Lubricant Enhances Everything
Lube isn’t just for dryness—it amplifies sensation and makes orgasms easier. Benefits include:
Reducing friction (more comfort, more pleasure).
Compatibility with condoms (stick to water or silicone-based).
Heightened sensitivity.
Our Pick: Starship’s water-based lube for silky, non-sticky glide.
4. Condoms = Peace of Mind
Condoms prevent STIs and pregnancy. Tips for better use:
Carry them regardless of anatomy or role.
Experiment with sizes/brands for comfort.
Check expiry dates and store properly (not in wallets!).
5. Masturbation Improves Partnered Sex
Knowing your own body through self-exploration helps you:
Communicate preferences clearly.
Reduce performance pressure.
Understand pleasure (especially with same-sex partners).
6. Prioritize Aftercare
Post-sex care strengthens emotional bonds:
Hydrate and clean up.
Cuddle, snack, or chat.
Ask: "You okay?" or "What did you enjoy?"
Note: Crucial after rough/kinky play.
7. STI Testing Is Responsible & Attractive
With 1 in 2 sexually active people contracting an STI by 25, regular testing is essential. Get tested:
After new unprotected partners.
Annually or as recommended.
Bonus: Follow Starship for free testing event updates!
8. Sex Toys Amplify Pleasure
Toys aren’t substitutes—they’re pleasure enhancers. Why invite them in?
85% of vulva owners need clitoral stimulation to orgasm.
Explore new sensations together.
Ease performance anxiety (e.g., premature ejaculation).
9. Focus on Fun, Not Perfection
Real sex isn’t like porn. Prioritize mutual enjoyment over flawless performance.
10. Embrace the Awkwardness
Laugh through slip-ups—genuine, playful moments make sex memorable.