What do you think about having sex with an older man? Maybe you are curious, or even feel disgusted. Both of these thoughts are quite common. If you have already had sex with an older man, you might appreciate the sexual skills (or skills in bed) he brings. If you are willing to give it a try, you might be pleasantly surprised and even gain a deeper understanding of yourself.

The positive significance of having sexual relations with older men

Having sex with an older man has many benefits.

If he has reached the age of impotence, this might greatly benefit your sexual life. Say goodbye to condoms. However, men typically have a later age for childbearing than women do. So before going to bed, make sure you have understood the relevant medical information.

But is it safe to have unprotected sex with all men who suffer from impotence? Even if you can't get pregnant, you still have the possibility of contracting sexually transmitted diseases from your partner.

1. He’s more experienced.

There’s a good chance that sex with an older man will be better because he’s spent more time learning how to please women — or at least one or two women! He’s seen women who are young and eager to please as well as those who are older who demand their pleasure.

2. It’s less about his penis.

If there’s one thing that many guys, especially the younger ones, fail to understand it’s that their penis isn’t the only organ involved in sex. And it might not even be the most important one! Lack of understanding might be why guys struggle to turn on female partners. Hint: the brain is the most sexual organ.

3. His ego takes a back seat

Young men often view sex as a performance, regarding pleasure and climax as a responsibility. Of course, it's good that a man cares about your pleasure, but when he craves for your climax, you will feel an inexplicable pressure.

Guilt - Even if the event didn't happen, you might still feel guilty, even if it wasn't his fault. If he shows signs of sadness or depression, your feelings will only get worse!

When you are with some young men, you might worry that asking them to try new sexual positions might make them feel rejected or criticized. No wonder it's so hard for women to get what they want in sex! However, as men get older, their self-esteem tends to decline. This means they are more willing to accept feedback and try new things in bed without feeling it's personal, so you can enjoy the sex you want without feeling guilty or sad.

4. He may want to spoil you

There’s a stereotype about older guys who like younger women, and while it may not apply to you, it does exist. Sex with an older man might come with perks. He may be well off and have established a certain lifestyle that you’re privy to now that you’re having sex. Some women really bask in these arrangements, but they’re not for everyone.

Of course, you shouldn’t expect gifts from a guy just because he’s older than another guy. He may not think that gifts are appropriate, may not have a ton of money or may simply want only to exchange sexual favors rather than physical objects.

5. He’s done playing games.

The longer a man has lived, the more aware he is of how little time is left. This may make him more forward when pursuing you because playing games wastes time. He might have left his sowing-wild-oat days long behind him. Although, he may still want to play some sex games with you

If you’re sick of having sex with boys, then consider having sex with an older man who is, well, a man. He’s had an entire life to establish himself, work on his personality and figure out what he wants. Of course, you might only be in it for the sex, which is just fine.