Premature ejaculation can be caused by various factors.

Perhaps this is your first time having sex with your new partner. Perhaps you haven't ejaculated for a week and your libido is high. Or perhaps you habitually get lost in intense mental fantasies rather than fully enjoying the present moment with someone.

However, premature ejaculation can also be caused by some less common and unconventional situations. These are deeper psychological and energetic issues that are rarely discussed.

Regarding the question "Why do I ejaculate so quickly?", you will find that most of the answers focus on the above examples, or on masturbation habits, pornographic content, and general stress levels.

But the truth is: Your body and mind are often much more strange and complex than this.

Yes, excessive excitement or training oneself to reach orgasm quickly through improper masturbation habits are definitely common causes.

However, erection and ejaculation are extremely private aspects of a man's life, and they are highly susceptible to psychological burdens. Biology and hormones are usually regarded as the sole orbiting satellites that drive the ebb and flow of erections.

From a metaphysical perspective, ejaculation is directly related to your relationship with a woman and your creative lifestyle.

(As a heterosexual male with a large number of heterosexual readers, I find it easier to summarize things using these terms. But these principles also apply to gay men and all sexual orientations. You can replace "female" with any gender you prefer.)

mental contact

If you believe that your mental state and energy have no impact on your penis, consider a simple example: how your desire for your partner can fluctuate dramatically within a week.

One day, you will be completely infatuated with her body, become as hard as stone, and desire to have sex with her every day.

Then, you might have a quarrel, or have a disagreement, or feel attacked/shamed because of what she said, and suddenly you lose interest in her.

In fact, you might even feel disgusted and find yourself desiring to break away from this relationship or sleep with other women.

Unless you can deal with, express and eliminate the accumulated hurt, resentment or anger deep within yourself, it will either kill your sexual desire (erect state) or greatly affect your sexual ability (ejaculation).

These identical effects are caused by more elusive factors such as unconscious avoidance and fear.

Premature ejaculation = avoidance?

One of the key themes you will see here is that in order to stay in bed for a longer period of time, one needs to become more sensual and more engaged with the body.

However, emotional and psychological factors - such as fear and resentment - prevent us from achieving this completely.

Therefore, if you feel unsafe around your partner or are deliberately avoiding her, you definitely wouldn't want to be completely by her side and press the "ejaculation" button prematurely.

During the course of a day, we engage in various unconscious avoidance behaviors, and these behaviors are often noticed by us inadvertently. We have learned how to protect ourselves in an autonomous mode.

Premature ejaculation might just be another form of self-protection behavior.

If you are suffering from premature ejaculation and the conventional advice doesn't work for you, then this list might provide you with some unexpected and resonant suggestions that relate to you. But only you yourself can find the solution.

A good way is to pay attention to how your body feels while you are reading. Your body knows better than you do. Your brain may not be able to perceive what is really happening behind the scenes, but your body can sense it immediately.

Face the reality, settle down, and consider the following five less common causes of premature ejaculation:

• You are afraid of women.

• You are afraid of your partner.

• There are too many things in your relationship that have not been expressed.

• You let the world take away your energy so easily.

• The work you are currently doing is not in line with your highest goal.