When it comes to female orgasm, women desire it, and men desire to provide it. However, surprisingly, few people know how to achieve it. Although techniques are part of it, there are many other factors at play to reach orgasm. Understanding how to fully enjoy intimate moments with your partner, while relaxing and enjoying the pleasure of the orgasm.

Everything begins before the sexual act.

Contrary to common belief, female orgasm is not mechanical and cannot be predetermined at will. Male sexual experiences usually allow the separation of sexual desire from one's own feelings. However, most women are more easily aroused by their partner's desire for them, the surrounding environment, and the relaxed atmosphere that can evoke love. For most women, feeling their partner's needs and appreciation can have a positive impact on their sex life and make them more sensitive to their partner's active behaviors. Some experts also suggest that preparation before sex can begin even before undressing. For example, taking her on a date, cooking dinner for her, or helping her with household chores - all of these can help her relax and feel cared for. This feeling will spread to the bedroom. Consider it as "subconscious foreplay".

Add foreplay

Many women prefer longer foreplay time than their partners are aware of. This might be related to the subconscious desire of women to feel the love and pleasure from their partners, rather than just the feeling that their partners are eager to reach orgasm. Women enjoy experiencing different types of foreplay, so try to do it together with your partner and don't be afraid to ask what she wants and what makes her feel good. Many studies have shown that oral sex is the most effective way for women to reach orgasm, so you can start with your fingers and then move your lips downward when you think she is close to orgasm. If oral sex doesn't work for her, you can try other methods. Gently touching and kissing all the sensitive areas of the woman - legs, breasts, neck and ears - can also make the feeling more intense. Stay sensitive and alert, and continue when you feel good about something.

Mix together

Many couples tend to follow the same routines during foreplay and sexual activity, which makes it difficult for them to reach climax sometimes, as the woman usually knows what's coming next. However, if you try to break the routine, such as trying new positions or using sex toys, both partners will experience greater excitement and it will be easier for them to reach climax. Changing the location of the embrace can also be helpful - if you usually have sex only in the bedroom, you might try a different place, such as the kitchen or bathroom, to enjoy the pleasure of doing something different together.