Hosting a group sex party (often referred to as a "party for fun") can be quite enjoyable, but it is not always a relaxing affair. From ensuring the safety of guests, to making full use of the venue, and to comprehensively mastering the correct group sex etiquette, there are many things to consider!

Whether you are planning a party for celebration in the near future or later on, or you are just curious about what is needed to hold an exciting sex party, you don't need to hesitate any longer. Here is everything you need to know.

Choose a particular vibe for the event

The atmosphere of a rave party can vary greatly and the themes are diverse. When you decide to hold a rave party, the exact atmosphere you want to create is entirely up to you. Do you want to create a BDSM sex dungeon, or a more luxurious venue such as a high-end romantic masquerade ball? Once you determine the theme of the party, the decorations and props around the venue become clearer.

Location is key

Because this is a group activity, in many respects (thanks to the attention of everyone in the room), it is almost an open form of sexual behavior. Although you can hold a wild party in your own comfortable home, it is known that the planners will also rent larger spaces, such as luxury hotel rooms, museums, art galleries, or even churches. Wouldn't that make it feel more daring?

Only invite respectful participants

Sexual parties are suitable for everyone as long as mutual respect is maintained. All participants can achieve this. Do not discriminate against the invitees for any reason, including their occupation. If you are worried that someone might reveal the identities of other participants, you can consider having everyone sign a non-disclosure agreement (NDA). This will ensure the confidentiality among all participants.

Specify the expected outcome

It is of utmost importance to ensure that everyone is clear about the party etiquette and the significance of creating a safe space for all participants. This not only involves informing everyone about the theme of the event, but also clarifying what behaviors are acceptable and what are not, including measures to deal with specific quirks. Let the invitees know what items will be provided upon arrival and what items they should bring (if any).

Distinguish between "players" and "peepers"

Although it's easy to distinguish between those who want to actively participate in the activities and those who just want to watch from the sidelines, once the party starts, it's easy to forget. Make a distinguishable mark, such as a brightly colored ribbon, and tie it around the wrists of those who only want to observe. Clearly indicate that these people are not allowed to approach. But if they feel it's appropriate, they can remove the ribbon and join at any time.

Create an atmosphere through music

A sex party is still a party after all. Every wonderful gathering should have an appropriate playlist to fill any silent gaps. Regardless of the theme of the party, consider the right music. Another option is to choose some more common sexy songs. No matter what you choose to play, we suggest not turning the music too loud. This way, everyone can focus on the present, including the auditory experience during the sexual act.

Be ready with food at all times

As the host, one simple way to follow group sex etiquette is to provide food for the participants. It doesn't have to be a big meal (of course, you can choose otherwise), but you can offer some snacks and light refreshments to keep people satisfied. Sex can be a vigorous activity, which means appetite tends to increase gradually. These snacks can be enjoyed before the party starts to replenish energy; after the party, they can be used to replenish energy.

Help break the deadlock

When hosting a group sex party, you want everyone in the room to feel comfortable and at ease with each other. Before getting to the "main event", it helps to interact with everyone and introduce yourselves, which can break the ice. If there is a sense of unity among the participants, especially when they have met the person they want to have sex with, your party will be more enjoyable.

Provide essential items

Make sure to provide guests with everything they need for a safe and enjoyable group sex experience. Provide all the items necessary for safe sexual activities, including condoms that help prevent sexually transmitted infections; scented condoms are a perfect choice to enhance the oral sex experience. Body wipes and disinfectant for sex toys are also essential for maintaining cleanliness. Additionally, wipeable inflatable furniture, sex toys, and lubricants should be placed within reach of the guests.

Before starting, obtain the explicit consent of all parties.

When organizing a group sex party, the most important thing in planning the event is to obtain the consent of all participants. After clearly stating the theme and the expectations of all participants, they can truly express their consent. However, if at any time someone feels uncomfortable, wants to leave the viewing area, or simply leaves the party, they need to be accepted and respected.