I have written many articles about chastity before. I really like this idea and also the reality: a man's penis is locked up, and I have the key, control over his climax, and even his ability to masturbate. In contrast, I like the freedom to touch whenever I want - and I have fully utilized this freedom, as you can see from the thousands of comments on sex toys and erotic articles on this blog. Chastity is definitely not for me, I mean, when I am locked up. Then what about the other side of chastity: forced climax? This still requires external control - but rather than refusing a climax, it is more like being forced to reach climax again and again.
What exactly is an orgasmic urge?
Have you never heard of "forced orgasm"? I know, at first glance it might seem a bit strange. How can you force someone to reach orgasm? Why would you do that? And why do you want or need to be forced to have an orgasm? Of course, if you and the other person are in an intimate relationship and you are willing to reach orgasm together with them, shouldn't any "forcing" be unnecessary? This might sound very negative and wrong until you truly understand the meaning of the term "forced orgasm".
Compulsive orgasms are usually very enjoyable - yes, I mean enjoyable - as part of BDSM. In the context of sexual pleasure/adult gratification, one party plays the role of the "dominator" ("controller"), while the other plays the role of the "submissive" (one who obeys the dominator). Giving and obeying orders is a highly arousing and mutually satisfying scenario. Such a scenario clearly requires both parties to always give full and active consent, high levels of trust, and some safety measures, such as setting safety words or agreeing to use traffic signal lights.
BDSM scenarios do not always take place in dimly-lit "sex dungeons" or strange clubs. Participants do not need any special equipment. My partner and I can fully immerse ourselves in the BDSM game naked in our comfortable bedroom. The key lies in mindset, trust, and mutually agreed-upon control factors, rather than clothing, equipment, or location.
In BDSM games, this kind of control or power exchange can be achieved in various ways. One of them is forcing the climax. That is, the controller (also known as "dominator", "mistress", "master", "mistress", "upper-class person", "master" etc.) "forces" the controlled and obedient person (also known as "compliant person" or "recipient") to reach the climax that is usually achieved after stopping self-stimulation, and continuously reach the climax (if possible), until the "upper-class person" makes a change - or of course, the recipient uses their safety word.
What did people gain from this?
In BDSM, experiencing the forced climax as part of the voluntary power exchange between the two parties is merely another way for the "submissive" to give up their control, while the "dominant" enjoys total control and reaffirms this control by repeatedly stimulating the "submissive" to reach climax, or by repeatedly guiding the "submissive" to climax. This is a mutual pleasure and mutual satisfaction. The physical satisfaction stems from the satisfaction of the climax, as well as the mental and emotional satisfaction enjoyed by the BDSM practitioners - from the stimulation of the climax by deep trust, giving up control, complete dominance, fully exerting oneself within the pre-agreed and communicated boundaries, being pushed to the limit (but not beyond).
Like many BDSM activities, for those who are not familiar with the complex mental and emotional aspects of this world, the experience of forced orgasm may seem cruel, savage, despicable and harsh. All activities are entirely based on the voluntary consent of both parties, and the activities will immediately stop when the submissive uses a safety word (or shouts "red light" at a traffic signal, or uses a pre-agreed signal when gagged) or when the dominator/dominant wishes to stop.
The stimulation of BDSM stems from the physiological satisfaction brought about by sexual pleasure and intimate relationships, as well as the resulting sexual climax. Moreover, the transfer of control, the exchange of power, and the sense of security derived from exploring within the realm of mutual trust and respect - these combined experiences are what excite the enthusiasts of BDSM. As I have stated, forced climax is just one of the many ways to achieve mutual satisfaction in BDSM.
How to achieve an orgasm involuntarily?
There are many different ways to achieve an orgasm through coercion. Just like in most BDSM scenarios, the only limitations lie in the participants, their consent, and your imagination.
Using the penis is more likely to lead to an orgasmic climax (please excuse my pun), although this obviously depends on the individual's usual ease of achieving an orgasm. I'm fortunate to know several people who have a vulva and they can reach orgasm very easily - of course, much easier than me. Unless someone with a penis has problems with erections and ejaculation, it is often quite easy to get them to climax. Of course, orgasm is not (always) solely dependent on physical stimulation, but also relates to the headspace of the person attempting to reach orgasm. A good BDSM experience will ensure the appropriate headspace is achieved.
Orgasms can be controlled by oneself through masturbation, or through external stimuli, such as from others... or objects. Compulsive orgasms are the same. The compliant individuals may be "ordered" to masturbate until they reach orgasm, and then continue to experience more orgasms, or the dominator may give the orgasm "by hand" to the compulsive orgasmic fetishist. I have seen some objects used to enable compulsive orgasmic fetishists to reach levels of orgasm that are beyond their usual voluntary cessation, such as self-masturbation/ milking machines provided for those with penises, and fixed or tied-up vibrating rods provided for those with vaginas.