If you’re a baby gay, a late bloomer, or a queer person just wanting some new tips and techniques for greater pleasure - learning about lesbian sex can be a bit elusive! Most of us grew up learning about sex from erotic materials, sex scenes in movies, or maybe the straight sex education we got in High School. Oftentimes, queer and wlw sex gets left out of the picture, and you’re left thinking “How do lesbians have sex?”

What does lesbian sex mean?

Before delving into how lesbian individuals engage in sexual activities, we must first clarify the meaning of "lesbian sexual behavior". When this term is used, people usually tend to think of sexual activities between two cisgender lesbians, but in reality, the scope of lesbian and queer sexual behaviors is much broader.

First of all, lesbianism is not the only form of female-on-female sexual relationship! There are also bisexuals, pansexuals and queer females. Lesbianism does not encompass cisgender females either! Transgender females can be lesbians, or bisexuals, pansexuals or queer. Finally, many individuals whose gender does not conform to the norm or who are non-binary identify as lesbians and can engage in lesbian sexual behavior.

Female homosexual sexual behavior, like female homosexuals themselves, is both individualized and diverse. This is reflected in various aspects such as different sexual interests, sensitivity of body parts, the involved genitalia, etc. Each female homosexual can decide on the type of sexual behavior they want to explore, and there is no universal "correct" female homosexual sexual behavior pattern. This is both exciting and possibly frightening. Unlike sexual behavior with cisgender heterosexual partners, female homosexual sexual behavior does not have a fixed "script" or behavioral norms. Breaking free from a series of rigid rules about sex will make you feel free and allow you to have the kind of enjoyable sex you desire, but it can also make you feel overwhelmed, especially when you are just starting to explore female homosexual sexual behavior.

Sex acts for lesbians and sapphics

Leaving aside the "scripted" sex, I prefer the framework-style sex like Spanish snacks or buffets. Each time, you can see all the options in front of you and choose your adventure! When it comes to lesbian sex, there are many different choices for sex and intimacy. Here are the starting points for you to begin learning:

Hand masturbation (finger manipulation, stimulation of the clitoris, etc.)

Cunnilingus Grinding

Scissors

Fist fighting

Intimacy

Licking the anus

Anal penetration

Wearable prosthetic penis

Sex toys

BDSM/quirks