Stronger orgasms? Yes please!
People commonly say that an apple a day keeps the doctor away, but an orgasm a day certainly has its benefits too. In addition to more frequent O’s—stronger O’s, different types of O’s, and yes, multiples O’s in a row, are ideal for having an incredible sex life—whether it’s with yourself or a partner.
In the past, orgasms were something that I considered great, of course, but about a year ago, my orgasms started to become stronger, longer-lasting, and more intense. I remember it like it was yesterday. I was watching some porn movies because I intended to masturbate, but I didn’t even get to the actual masturbation part. I remember seeing one video in particular that caught my interest, and while watching it, I gradually became so turned on that I orgasmed without even touching myself.
While watching the video, I remember paying close attention to the actions that were going on during the video and utilizing all my senses. I focused on the details of the positions done by the couple and the sounds they were making. I also mentally filled in the gaps of the things that weren’t explicitly shown or mentioned in the video, like how they met and what led them to having rough sex on the floor.
The more I became aroused, the more I wondered if it’d be possible for me to finish without touching myself, and when it happened, I was shocked. I had heard of hands-free orgasms, but I was sceptical that my body would be capable of experiencing a climax in such a different way than what I was used to.
Then it suddenly hit me. Regardless of where a person is in their sexual journey, their body can achieve newer and better sensations than what they’ve felt in the past. Sometimes, we’re so used to coming in one or two specific ways that we forget the other possibilities of achieving high-quality orgasms.
How to have better orgasms
When achieving ultimate bedroom bliss, here’s the most important thing to remember: your brain is your most powerful sex organ.
One of the biggest myths out there is that orgasms are a completely physical response. People assume that penetration has to be involved and that you have to stimulate a particular area to help your partner (or yourself) achieve it. However, your mind may get you to your O quicker than any touch can. Besides, this idea is even supported by research! A 2005 study published in the Journal of Sex & Martial Therapy found that orgasmic pleasure and satisfaction were more related to the psychological aspects of pleasure rather than the physical factors.
This relates to the piece of specific advice when trying to achieve bigger and better orgasms.
5 Tips on how to have better orgasms
Better orgasm tip 1: Utilize the power of your mind
Better orgasm tip 2: Eliminate sex organ hierarchy
Stronger orgasm tip 3: Do your Kegel exercises, regardless of your gender identity
Better orgasm tip 4: Experiment with different sensory experiences
Stronger orgasm tip 5: Have sex in a way that mimics your masturbation habits