I Give Good Head: A Guide To Pleasuring Women With Your Mouth

I Give Good Head: A Guide To Pleasuring Women With Your Mouth

Cunnilingus (oral sex on a woman) is an art. It requires practice because it seems that very few people can do it successfully (and enjoy it) on their first attempt. Before delving into how to please a woman with your mouth, I first need to acknowledge an obvious fact: Some people dislike cunnilingus, and that's perfectly normal. I hope that for those who don't enjoy licking and kissing a woman's private area, this article can inspire you to rethink, and perhaps make you realize that cunnilingus is as enjoyable for you as it is for the woman herself.

Then let's get started.

Returning to the most basic common sense: Many women believe that the smell and taste of their "down there" are different. And this is indeed the case. In fact, every woman smells and tastes differently at different times of the month, and this is very normal and natural. First of all, this is not a "smell", but a natural smell that each of us has. The upper part of a woman emits the scents of perfume, shampoo and deodorant, while the lower part is the smell of the vagina. Embrace its smell and taste... Oral sex is intimate and sacred. The more you embrace every aspect of it, the more you will love it. If you really care about the hygiene and smell of your partner's vagina, it is recommended to take a shower or bath together before the main act as a warm-up.

Now that we have covered the basic knowledge, let's talk about anticipation: Make your woman wait. Don't rush. Move slowly downward, using your tongue to caress her nipples and curves, all the way down to her private parts and thighs... Lick and kiss the inner sides of her thighs and buttocks until she craves more. If she pleads with you, I mean truly pleads, then you are on the right path. Feel her anticipation and let her fully experience the intimate contact between you and her vagina. Remember, oral sex is an art, and her vagina is your canvas. Use your creativity. Gently blow, suck, lick, and kiss, tasting every part of her. Use your mouth to love her vagina.

Now, we are taking this exploration to the next level. First of all, don't consider oral sex as "pre-cumming"; many women prefer to make oral sex the main activity, and it's up to you to make the main activity exciting. Use your nose, lips, tongue, chin... your entire face to explore. Feel the changes in her body, her swollen lips, her hardened clitoris. Pay attention to every detail. Use your lips and tongue to part her lips. Use your tongue to circle around her clitoris to tease her. When you're ready, start licking her clitoris slowly and very gently. Take one gentle lick and one gentle kiss at a time. Don't make that mistake of being too fast and too forceful. Take it slowly. Enjoy every touch.

listen. Listen to the sounds she makes. She might not have said anything, but I guarantee that if you get close to her, you will notice the changes in her breathing, as well as the subtle sounds she makes when you explore every inch of her body. Over time, you will come to understand those sensitive points, those magical points. Remember, take it slow, move slowly... Don't rush! When you notice the sounds she makes, you can feel what excites her, and when you understand what excites her, you will definitely make her scream for more.

Before moving on, let's talk about lubrication. Now, the natural secretions that have always been present in her body will start to flow. Some women are more "wet" than others. It should be noted that there is no right or wrong when it comes to the amount of natural lubrication. Take it slow, take it slow. Taste the flavor of her secretions; use your tongue to move her sweet semen up and down around the clitoris. The moist clitoris seems to make it expand and become more sensitive. If you find yourself secreting a lot of saliva, you can use it as an additional lubricant or swallow it carefully. The more moist, the better.

If you enjoy adventure, you can temporarily remove her clitoris and slowly slide your tongue into her vulva, circling around her anus. Not ready yet? it doesn't matter. If you're ready, I suggest you touch her anus in the same way you would touch other parts of her body. For some people, the anus can be an extremely sensitive and sensual area; while for others, it's a forbidden zone. If you're not sure, you can ask.

Now bring the clitoris back. Slowly. Treat her clitoris with the same love you show to your own. Use her natural lubricant and your saliva, and gently caress it with your tongue. During the exploration, vary the movements of your tongue and lips, and remain patient. You will notice that she is feeling increasingly moist now, and the clitoris is beginning to swell. If she is about to reach orgasm, do not change any movements! If she is about to reach orgasm, do not fall into the trap of speeding up or increasing pressure! Being more forceful and faster is not always better. For some people it might be so, but don't assume that it is the same for her. Continue with what you are doing. This is not a competition.

Keep going. In a moment, your woman will reach her climax. Enjoy these moments; remember to embrace her scent, smell and voice. When she reaches her climax, listen and remain quiet. You have created the space for her release; now, enjoy the sweet aftertaste of the pleasure and adoration of your woman's vagina.

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