Question:My boyfriend has always enjoyed the thrill of having sex outdoors, such as on hikes or while cycling to the countryside.

I have always been willing to indulge - even very happily - however, our outdoor activities are increasingly approaching what you might consider a public domain. Recently, we completed our encounter on the way in a car, beside a busy road, in a secluded area of a park, during the day! I admit that I like the extra element of danger - but if we are caught, is it possible that we could be arrested for what we have done? We Was it a crime?

Answer:Our response is: Based on your geographical location, you are likely to have violated the law - so we suggest that you play within the four walls, where you can fully enjoy your passion without any risks.

However, if for you having sex outside the bedroom means having sex completely in the open air, then when choosing your location, you must be extremely cautious and make sure no one will accidentally discover you and your lover: because if two people have sex in the woods, and no one sees it, did it really happen?

Our answer: No. Because although we previously stated that public sexual acts are a crime, if you are not caught, then it is not a crime.

What Laws am I Breaking?

OK, public sexual acts are not crimes, but having them classified as minor crimes by law is illegal - which means they will be punished with fines, and even some imprisonment. These are serious matters, so when you are out and have a lively time, you might have committed one of the following violations:

Indecent behavior - This is classified as sexual behavior carried out in public, and its definition varies among different states in the United States. The general nature of this law makes it a protective umbrella, making it difficult to defend against - regardless of whether you are dressed neatly when committing the crime, this brings us to the second law you might violate, which is:

Unseemly exposure - Displaying your genitals, just like what often happens in public sexual acts and other aspects, is quite normal. Therefore, unseemly exposure often accompanies accusations of indecent behavior.

What penalties will we face? Minor crimes of indecent behavior or indecent exposure may cost you up to $1,000, or even send you to prison for up to one year.

What Counts as ‘Public’, Anyway?

You and your partner may be able to clearly recognize when public sex becomes too public, but there are indeed some gray areas and loopholes in the definition. In some states of the United States, all public (such as municipal) spaces are designated as off-limits for sexual activities, such as public bathrooms and parks.

As for our pen pal, driving a car in broad daylight on a busy road - yes, even in your own car - doing so might get you a ticket or worse. However, some states believe that as long as no one can see you and you park in an area that does not serve as a certain passage, sexual activities inside the vehicle do not fall under public place sexual activities. So, as always, be restrained and cautious when engaged in activities in the car.

So, How Can We Have Sex Publicly?

Therefore, it seems that engaging in actual intimate contact in public places does carry risks – even if the risks are only half as great as the excitement. However, there are some ways to have public intimate contact with almost no risk at all, and that is by using wireless remote-controlled sex toys.

Remote-controlled intimacy allows you to gently please your partner - or be pleased by your partner - without any nudity, physical contact or privacy requirements. They can be used in restaurants, bars, clubs, planes, trains and cars, or anywhere your imagination can take you. This is a clever way to avoid the dangers of nudity in nature.