My friend and I recently discussed whether having sex in water (such as in a swimming pool or a jacuzzi) is safe. To be honest, none of us was completely convinced by our own answers. Please help by clarifying the issues of moisture, moisture, and moisture! thank you,

I enjoy swimming pool sex.

Wetter Ain’t Always Better

But wait, don't we always say "the wetter, the better"? Well, the "wetness" you desire during sex is smooth and slippery, not at all like water. The vagina is self-lubricating. If you need water-based or silicone-based additional lubrication, for anal use or just for sensation, these are most likely to be washed away in the ocean or swimming pool. This not only makes both parties uncomfortable, but anyone receiving the insertion may also suffer some serious minor tears in their sensitive areas, which could lead to infection - including an increased chance of sexually transmitted infections.

And do not apply more salt water to the wound. Instead, the condom is unlikely to work in water. They are more prone to tearing due to lack of lubrication, and the latex will also degrade in high temperatures and chlorine.

Irritating Irrigation

Although you might have been inspired by some sexy scenes in the 90s film masterpiece "Wild Things", the swimming pool and the jacuzzi are definitely a less sexy concoction of different chemicals. Some people might get annoyed when they become excited (we know, when we actually kicked the dog, it fell down). Even if you are considering bringing sexual activities outdoors for some natural lovemaking, don't be fooled; without these stimulating chemicals, there are a lot of bacteria and substances spread by water, who knows what else, and they will all enter your waste.

"But Lele, show some sexy oral movements?" I heard you crying. Even if you think your lungs can handle underwater oral sex or licking, we would still be impressed by that. But unfortunately, you must be extra careful. Pay attention to the water area where you are trying to do this, because "beaver fever" is not as fun as it sounds. Ha!