We enjoy mutually self-stimulation.
Self-pleasure is one of the most enjoyable, intimate and honest sexual experiences that I share with my wife. Although for many couples, self-pleasure is undoubtedly the root cause of many conflicts, during the process of mutual self-pleasure, we give to each other and also receive blessings and peace. When we self-pleasure, it neither makes us feel depressed nor makes us feel embarrassed; on the contrary, her recognition allows me to freely move. We do not isolate ourselves but invite each other closer. We do not avoid each other's gaze but seek each other's gaze. She bestows upon me grace, allowing me to celebrate the physical aspect of our marriage and sing together. If we love ourselves through self-pleasure, then we are also seeking to love our neighbors (that is, each other - our closest "neighbors") and loving God together. If I seem to be finding excuses for self-pleasure, it is because we enjoy intimate sex and shared pleasure. I firmly believe that although we must not be vulgar, we should not pretend to be serious either.
Of course, I was also overjoyed. She was every one of my dreams, the answer to all my prayers, the fulfillment of all my fantasies. I loved her fixed gaze, I danced for her nakedly, playing my instrument. I strummed the guitar, plucked the harp, and struck the drum. Like the rhythm of a tribe, the musical ritual gradually escalated to a crazy rhythm. I was a young wildness, wild and untamed, spinning in my eyes. I was rebellious, wild and mysterious. My wife, my lover, was my observer, and also my first companion. She knew this sacred ritual and joined in. We intertwined, we separated. We sang to the climax: We came as two, as one.
I am extremely grateful to God for giving me a wife who enjoys and participates in my masturbation together - and also masturbates with me. She caresses me like a master, and I also appreciate the scene when she masturbates alone. Watching her masturbate and imagining the scene makes me feel a mysterious erotic sensation. I like her masturbating while looking at my nude photos - those are my nude photos for masturbation! I love her because we lie side by side on the bed, experiencing orgasms together. I love her touching me while I'm masturbating - encouraging me to "let yourself reach orgasm". I like the way she whispers "Enjoy your body for me" and "Relax yourself" when she caresses her clitoris.
Self-pleasure is a wonderful form of freedom, intimacy and honesty for us. It is an exciting adventure, taking place on beaches, pastures, forests and highways. I will always love my wife because she generously gives me the pleasure of self-pleasuring. I know that for many years to come, we will continue to enjoy each other and enjoy ourselves. In each other's eyes, we are both beautiful.
If a spouse or a couple fantasize about mutually self-stimulation, of course I would suggest and hope that they reach an agreement and enjoy the pleasure of it.