You will learn why mirror sex is so wonderful, which mirror effect is the best, how to obtain the optimal lighting, and which sexual positions are the most pleasurable when performed in front of a mirror. Additionally, there are some extra unique mirror sex techniques. Whether you are a voyeur or a exhibitionist, mirror sex can provide an excellent experience. Let's get started...

Get Consent First

Although you might have a kink or fetish for mirror sex, not everyone does. Make sure all your partners are down for it and give their enthusiastic consent before you prop up a mirror or change your sex positions so that you can use your bedroom mirror for sex.

Why Sex in Front of a Mirror Can Be Great

Body confidence – Sex in front of a mirror can improve your body confidence, especially when you see how much you turn on your man and see how they desire you sexually. Getting used to seeing yourself naked can also help you on your journey to self-love.

New angles – Using a mirror is great for spicing up sex as it lets you see things from a different angle, including your lover’s body. This can even help when tying knots for bondage or even trying to escape your binds!

Best Set Ups for Mirrors for Sex

You don’t have to buy a new mirror to satisfy your mirror sex kink. Your existing mirror over the dresser or in the bathroom can be co-opted for sexy times. You can also take a mirror from another room in some instances, too.

Below, you’ll find some suggestions for types of mirrors to use when you want to see your reflection during sex.

Wall mirrors – These are multipurpose and can work well if they are large and low enough, but higher, horizontal mirrors aren’t ideal for lower beds or every position. However, if you place a wall mirror above the mattress at the head of the bed, the person on top can see themselves. This works great if you are riding your man.

Floor mirrors – Can work well for lower beds and for standing sex positions, but might be too low to see in some mirror sex positions. Many floor mirrors are movable, so you can find the best spot for them. Keep in mind that mirrors without anchors can fall and possibly break.

Ceiling mirrors – A mirror on the ceiling above your bed is the classic sex mirror position. Anyone who can look up can see their sexy reflection in it as long as it’s large enough and/or you’re positioned correctly. You may need multiple panels and professional installation, however.

Hand mirrors – While they leave you with one less free hand, you could hold a hand mirror during sex. Try holding it over your shoulder to see your partner when they are penetrating you from behind you or to reflect someone’s face back to them. Choose a mirror with an easy-to-grip handle.

Windows – Serve as impromptu mirrors every day, and you don’t need to install anything. They work best when it’s dark on the other side of the mirror and light inside. Beware of flashing the neighbors!

Upping the Kinkiness with Mirror Sex

If you’re a fan of mirror sex, or even if you’re not sure yet, these tricks might make it even better.

Use a blindfold – You can use a blindfold on yourself if you’d rather not see yourself in the mirror. Or you can put a blindfold on your partner to prevent them from looking at your reflection if you want to torture or punish your partner. You could even pretend you have a mirror by leading your blindfolded partner into a room without one.

Drape a scarf – Draping a scarf or other sheer fabric over your mirror can be a good solution when only one member of a couple really wants to use a mirror. The fabric will make the reflection less clear and bright while adding ambiance to the room.

Try bondage – Seeing yourself or your partner tied up in a mirror can be super hot (learn more about light bondage or try breast bondage). This is even more true if one or both of you are suspended from the air in a sex swing. Suspension can even let you place the mirror beneath you.

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Use a two-way mirror – Consider this an advanced trick because not everyone has a two-way mirror. But if you do, or if your partner thinks you do, you can stand on the other side and watch to your heart’s content as your partner masturbates.