Revisiting finger-fucking, as it is an underestimated form of sexual behavior, is often classified as a clumsy act during the first sexual encounter or a prank during adolescence. When you realize that finger-fucking can actually become one of the most intimate and pleasurable experiences between you and others, you will find it astonishing.

It is often overlooked as part of sexual contact - even as the end of the sexual act, especially in long-term relationships. So how can we restore fingering and make it wonderful!

The word "fingering" immediately brings to mind insertion - pointing and gesturing, pushing and shoving. We must remember that fingers can explore all areas around the vulva, the perineum, or the anus. (However, after exploring the anus, it is essential to clean immediately as bacteria carried back into the vagina would make it less enjoyable - prepare some biodegradable sanitary wipes!) Regarding hygiene, this seems obvious, but it is crucial to ensure that hands are clean and tidy, and that nails are not too sharp or rough.

To create a wonderful state of sexual arousal, you can use your fingertips to massage the labia, gently hold it in place, and move rhythmically over the entire area. This is very effective for teasing and enhancing sexual arousal. Gently press the area around the clitoris, applying enough pressure to stimulate the tip of the pelvic apex, and then remove your hand. This might sound a bit frustrating, but as we suggested in our article on marginalization, diverting your attention when sexual arousal reaches its peak can make the arousal even more intense.

After several rounds of genital massage, insert the middle finger between the labia, slide it up and down along the protrusions and folds of the labia, and feel the moistness beginning to seep out. Insert the middle finger one millimeter into the most densely populated nerve endings at the vaginal opening, gently rotate the fingertip there for a few seconds, and then withdraw. Listen, observe and feel the positive response of your partner to your actions. When you withdraw, will your partner raise their head or follow your finger? It sounds like you're doing well. Pay attention to the arch of the back, the tilt of the pelvis and the direction of the toes; these are all good indicators that the sexual activity is progressing smoothly and the pleasure is accumulating.

Apply pressure to the clitoral area using your palm or the base of your palm. Gently push your fingertips a little deeper, perhaps for an extra second, to create a sensation of slight stretching or opening in the clitoral area, thereby increasing intimacy.

Conversation will help you rediscover your finger technique.

If you or your partner enjoy discussing sexual topics, now is a good time to observe your partner's physical reactions, "You're so wet, it's exciting for me..."

If you usually don't actively express your needs and desires, why not give it a try? You might be surprised to find that the results are so remarkable. Some people might be a little shy at first, but as the momentum builds up and sexual desire increases, you'll find yourself speaking out your thoughts like a stream of liquid flowing freely within you.

If you are the recipient, encouraging words can ensure that you receive more actions that are beneficial to you.

"It feels so good. That's the place. Add a bit more..." These are just analogies I'm using. My favorite line is: "Oh yeah, play with my body using your dexterous fingers." But this only applies to very special moments!

Observation

When someone engages in sexual activity with your vulva and private parts, watching the tendons and muscles sliding over the flesh is extremely sexy. The slight twitching of the jaw muscles, or the focused gaze of your lover as they look at you, can make you extremely excited. Your vagina and the pleasure it brings become the sole focus of attention for others, which is itself an extremely private part.

Once you all feel truly comfortable, you can spread your legs and raise your pelvis. Use your body to invite your lover to go in a little deeper. Encourage them to bend their fingers in and start massaging at your G-spot. As they find your G-spot and massage there, feel your excitement building up continuously.

If you haven't experienced it before, using a scissors-like motion inside the vagina can be extremely pleasurable and the sensation is quite different. Keeping your fingers apart when withdrawing will bring a completely different feeling. Remember to use plenty of lubricant so that the vagina can be fully moistened. The sound of the vagina will also be very stimulating, with the moist and sticky liquid interweaving together, adding to the overall sexual experience.

Some people believe that inserting fingers into the vagina helps to warm up, but to reach the true climax, the fingers must be removed. Rose is a fan of finger stimulation. She thinks that finger stimulation is more exciting than any other sexual technique. She said, "My sexual climax varies greatly - when there is something inside me, it's very difficult for me to fully ejaculate, so I often have to ask them to take the fingers out when I'm about to ejaculate, so that I can ejaculate anywhere." Here is another great suggestion: "The truly effective method is that they take the fingers out before I ejaculate, and then use their fingers to vigorously penetrate my clitoris. In this way, I can almost experience two different climaxes." This is always an additional benefit.

AM Harding offered a great suggestion: "Don't forget about your thumbs. They can be bent at different angles and touch different parts. Depending on the individual woman, their function might be as effective as that of the fingers."

If the angle is correct, the person applying the force may need to be closer, for example, the receiver can lie on their back or sit down, with the thumb inserted and hooked upwards, the fingers spread out, stimulating the clitoris and mons pubis. The thumb is obviously very flexible and can reach many stimulating areas. This can apply a great deal of deep pressure and achieve a good insertion effect. Since you are the receiver, you will naturally be in a higher position, and this is also a good way to explore the dominant dynamic.

Using finger techniques

Imagine that all ten fingers bring you pleasure! One hand's fingers slide in and out, while the other hand massages the pubic bone above the vulva, applying pressure there, which can bring a brand new and delightful sensation, extending all the way to the clitoris. The feeling of being firmly grasped is truly extremely hot.

Of course, the best way to understand what your lover likes is to observe how they use their fingers to masturbate themselves.

The author of the book "The Art of Female Self-Pleasure", Carla Burn, supports the use of hand techniques, especially in female self-pleasure games. "Insert one finger into the vagina. If you like, you can also caress. At the same time, use the other hand to self-stimulate the clitoris. All the nerve endings are at the entrance, so the sensation of double stimulation is extremely wonderful."

Carefully observe how long each stage of their masturbation lasts. Are they focusing on the outer labia, or do they go directly into the space between the labia, reaching the nerve center? This is a fascinating process, and you can all learn a lot from observing each other. As always, communication is key, and it is actually very sexy.

You will be pleasantly surprised to find that having a classic finger stimulation experience can add endless fun to your night. Let's relive the wonderful art of finger stimulation - we have many female masturbation videos featuring finger stimulation. Why not settle down for the night and rediscover this lost art of finger stimulation... Part 1 of finger stimulation, the joy of finger stimulation, me, me, me