Sexual climax is the ultimate pleasure enjoyed by billions of adults around the world who are interested in sex. Although sexual climax is not the purpose of sexual intercourse with a partner, it often serves as the highlight of sexual activity. Additionally, there are all the climaxes that people experience when enjoying sex alone - self-pleasure. So, why do some people pursue and enjoy ruined sexual climax? What is ruined sexual climax? How is it ruined? And why on earth would you do this?

What is a ruined orgasm?

A destructive orgasm refers to the moment when the physiological stimulation leading to the orgasm stops. This results in extreme depression because what should have been a normal orgasm turns into a "destroying" one due to the sudden lack of physiological stimulation. It feels far less fulfilling or satisfying than an orgasm that is continuously stimulated.

How can you ruin your sexual climax?

One person might choose to ruin their own sexual climax, or let their partner ruin theirs.

The ruined orgasm: How to ruin an orgasm You might find yourself in a self-destructive situation, that is, stopping the self-stimulation when the orgasm is about to occur. This means that the wave of the orgasm will gradually fade away depressingly.

Or, you might choose to experience the ruined climax in a partner game, an odd sexual scene, or in a BDSM power exchange role-play. If your dominator instructs you to masturbate for them, they might command you, "Stop masturbating immediately!" or they might be using their hands or sex toys to stimulate you, stopping when your sexual desire reaches its peak.

The agonizing cries and convulsive movements of the submissive ones during the moment of orgasmic destruction are extremely enjoyable for the dominant and punishing person.

Why do people tend to disrupt their own sexual climax?

The climax that is destroyed is usually pursued by those with an odd submissive nature or "being" trait. This kind of behavior falls under the category of BDSM because destroying the climax is not a typical or vanilla sexual pursuit. The quirky enthusiasts who enjoy destroying the climax discover that the physiological sensations experienced in this experience align with their submissive tendencies.

The ruined orgasm: How to ruin an orgasm Most people who enjoy ruining orgasms do so through power exchanges, quirky role-playing, or during BDSM activities. Even so, I do know someone who ruins his orgasms every time he masturbates, even if there is no dominant or submissive in his life. It's just because it has become a habit, and any other way feels "off".

As part of the power exchange relationship in BDSM, obeying orders and destroying one's own climax (or enduring the climax being destroyed by the "dominant") can bring a unique kind of pleasure. For them, the psychological satisfaction brought by the submissive obedience and the masochistic feeling caused by enduring the destroyed climax is far greater than the physical pleasure brought by a complete climax in the traditional sense.

The perspective of a slave

When writing this article, in order to further study "sexual climax breakdown", I consulted my long-term slave Penny and asked him for his opinion on this. I hope you enjoy his sharing. Please remember, these thoughts and feelings are those of a completely submissive male who is completely addicted to BDSM and female-dominated (FemDom). Therefore, his view on "sexual climax breakdown" is from the perspective of "heterosexual submissive males submitting to a dominant female".

The ruined orgasm: How to ruin an orgasm As a submissive man, my understanding of sexual arousal is quite different from that of most men. I view sexual arousal as a sign of weakness. In my opinion, this sexual arousal and the people I attract are causing this weakness, and thus they gain control over me.

At some point during my growth, sex was regarded as bad, even evil. This notion was deeply rooted in my soul. In the past, when I might have commented on some explicit pornographic pictures or made inappropriate remarks about sex that were out of line with my age, naive parents might have hinted to me that sex was wrong, bad, and even evil. This naive notion had a permanent impact on my sexual orientation.

For me, the source of this attraction, the one who awakens me, the one who attracts me, holds everything in their hands. I am very clear about the impact of this awakening, and I am determined to make myself weak and submit to their control.

Just like physical attraction, I began to focus on the source of this attraction, and any sexual arousal thus triggered would tend to intensify. I became weak, while the other person was completely conquered.

Conceptually, the submissive and conquered men believed that happiness, especially sexual pleasure, did not belong to them personally, but merely to their new masters, their mistresses, the goddesses or their lords.

The destroyed climax perfectly matched this domain. It deprived me of the pleasure of climax, thereby pleasing my master, who was also my master of my servitude.

My mistress achieved pleasure from my suffering in this way, confirming a belief and need that was difficult for me to recognize but deeply rooted within me – that the person who aroused my sexual desire was at least a little evil.

Failure of sexual climax is usually accompanied by the following situations:

Chastity means that the release of sexual climax is re-enclosed and rejected, usually through a cage, with the victor holding the key to the cage. In this way, the maintenance of sexual arousal reinforces the exchange of power, as well as:

The act of "having a green hat" refers to the complete deprivation of sexual pleasure, the disruption of sexual climax, while the victor flaunts himself and enjoys a complete, fully satisfying and ultimately pleasurable sexual experience with others.

A failed sexual climax is like a husband, his wife, and her male friend going to a restaurant for dinner.

The ruined orgasm: How to ruin an orgasm. A husband can have appetizers, but he cannot have any other dishes.

When the climax was disrupted, as a submissive man, I was very close to the ultimate pleasure of the climax, but due to the disappearance of the stimulation at the critical moment, I was unable to obtain it.

When combining with a turtle, I will not only witness the ecstasy of my victor who gains joy from my rejection, but also observe the happiness they obtain from what I rejected, namely sharing the appetizers, main courses and desserts - whether it's food or something even more delicious.