If you've always wanted to make her have an orgasm, then you've come to the right place. Orgasm is regarded by many as the ultimate goal of sexual climax. For many women, orgasm is the end of the pleasure, accompanied by the gushing of fluids. Those who have experienced this kind of climax will praise its wonder, and nothing can compare to it.
But what exactly is "chokuto"? Is chokuto real? Do all women have chokuto? How can you make your partner have chokuto? What if you can't reach the chokuto climax?
What is Squirting exactly?
Coitus eruptio is a popular term, also known as "female ejaculation". Essentially, it refers to the act of expelling a liquid during a strong orgasm. Depending on your physical constitution, the amount of the liquid may be minimal, appearing white or milky, while some individuals may experience a sensation similar to the gushing of Niagara Falls.
Making Her Squirt
OK, now we have completed the education part. Let's focus on making her come. But before we proceed, we have a small suggestion. Before you start exploring, you need to do one thing first - communicate! Talk to your partner about it, explore the principles of orgasmic pleasure, and create her experience.
Remember - this is her private matter, her choice! So, before attempting to reach an agreement, it is extremely important to confirm with her first. If you act without prior communication, I can guarantee that it will lead to deep resentment and sexual rifts. So, please act with caution.
My second suggestion is to relax. Masturbation may seem and sound like a huge achievement, but the essence of sex is not about shooting the target, but about enjoying the journey that helps you reach your destination.
The greater the pressure you put on yourself, the stronger the suppressed anxiety will be. Stress and tension can create a domino effect, preventing everyone from relaxing and ultimately making them feel overwhelmed with pressure. Therefore, please control your expectations and avoid putting pressure on each other.
PRO TIPS ON MAKING HER SQUIRT
Everything is related to the G-spot.
The G-spot climax and the oral climax are like cousins of intimacy. Learning how to stimulate her G-spot will lead you to success. Oral stimulation usually requires prolonged G-spot stimulation. Therefore, be sure to find her G-spot and become the best partner with her through prolonged stimulation - whether with your fingers or with specially designed G-spot sex toys.
The female G-spot is usually located about 1 to 1.5 inches (approximately 2.5 to 3.8 centimeters) inside the upper wall of the vagina. Its sensation is significantly different from that of the other parts of the vaginal canal. Many people describe it as having a slightly spongy feeling within the vagina. Additionally, pressing on the G-spot sometimes causes a sensation of "wanting to urinate".
If you're still unsure, it's best to ask your partner if she knows the location of her G-spot. Let her act as your guide and take you on a journey to experience it. This is also one of the best ways to discover her sexual needs.
This is not a game.
If you want her to have an orgasm, the time should not be too tight. Therefore, the early morning might not be the best time to start the exploration. Most experienced orgasm seekers recommend at least 20 minutes. However, if you are a beginner, you might need to extend or increase the time.
The key lies in gradually increasing sexual desire. Orgasmic clitoral stimulation usually occurs at the peak of sexual pleasure. You need to start slowly, engage in some foreplay, and gradually enhance your sexual desire. Edge play is a good way to reach the orgasmic climax. However, one thing is certain: inducing her to have an orgasmic climax should not be rushed! Additionally, stimulating the nipples can also enhance the pleasure during the orgasmic climax.
Encourage release
Not all orgasms are created equal. This actually depends on how your partner's body responds to the stimulation and her state of sexual desire. The beauty of having her achieve an orgasm is that you play an indispensable role during her release. When she finally gets ready to release, she will feel a rush of pleasure surging from the center of her body. She just needs to fully enjoy and savor this sensation, allowing her body to gradually reach the climax. She must resist the urge to tighten up and instead expand her breathing to achieve the explosive release.
Your responsibility is to ensure effective communication with your partner and to give signals when she is close to reaching orgasm. You need to indicate the approach of the climax through words or gentle actions, as the orgasm is usually achieved through strong thrusting and pressure.
You also need to pay attention to her body language and listen for her cues as you start to stimulate her towards the edge. If you're lucky, her body will respond by releasing a moist liquid, either in small amounts or in large quantities. Once again, everything depends on the situation.
Also, communicate with your partner and understand her feelings. Express your enjoyment of this experience and tenderly care for her, hug her - this is what she desires. This will be a close and intimate experience for both of you, but for her, it is more of a memorable memory. When she recovers from the wave of pleasure, you can become the calm energy and gently bring her back to reality.