One of the most wonderful things in love is to have the freedom to explore together in the bedroom with someone you respect and trust. If you are looking for new thrills in your sex life and want to spice things up for your partner, consider introducing a third person. No, I'm not referring to a threesome - I mean trying out sex toys.

I know you might be thinking something like this: Your vibrator is for enjoying "private time". But using sex toys and having a sexual life with your partner don't necessarily have to be mutually exclusive. You can incorporate sex toys into your daily activities with your partner, enjoying intimate and even orgasmic experiences. You don't have to stash the sex toys in the dark, dusty corner of your rarely-opened bedside drawer. You can take them out, expose them to the sunlight - or, you know, in a brightly-lit bedroom, or under the sheets.

If you or your partner are afraid of the prospect of adding sexual accessories (because not everyone immediately thinks of using rubber items to please the other person), here are some tips that can help you add some sexy accessories to your bedroom.

Let's start by discussing...

When introducing new elements into your sexual life, it's best to discuss it with your partner first rather than suddenly throwing new toys at each other during foreplay. Open and honest communication beforehand will make the experience more comfortable and enjoyable.

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Go shopping together

Nothing is more relaxing than couples browsing sex toys online. Open a bottle of wine, pick up the laptop, snuggle up on the sofa, and browse some online sex toys. The jokes between you might be as funny as sex itself.

Tell the other party

When you bring a new "friend" home and integrate it into your bedroom activities, make sure to maintain communication. Let your partner know what feels good and what feels bad. Remember that you are together! If something doesn't work for you, speaking up loudly is definitely not embarrassing - and if something works for you, speaking it out loudly is also definitely not embarrassing.

Caution

If you and your partner use condoms to prevent infection, it's best to do the same with your sex toys. If you have a vibrator, replace the condom after each use. Also, you should thoroughly clean all your devices (using warm soapy water is sufficient) after each use. This is probably the least sexy thing you do with them.

With the goal of shared happiness

Look for sex toys that you both can enjoy, because when you are all immersed in the adventure, sex becomes the most wonderful thing. When looking for toys, seek those that can bring mutual pleasure. So that you and your partner can play together, or at least take turns. Sharing is undoubtedly an expression of love.