Some men even enjoy oral sex more than sexual intercourse. Why is that a problem? Oral sex is also full of passion for women because you control their pleasure. Using your mouth, tongue and lips, it's like giving him a perfect gift. Besides, oral sex is also an excellent way to enhance your sexual desire.
Do you think you know all the techniques of oral sex? Think again! Here are instructions on how to use your tongue, hands, lips, and even teeth to make him experience the ultimate pleasure beyond imagination.
1. Blowjob = Blowjoy
Cunnilingus should not be rushed. Give him the opportunity to fully experience the pleasure of your caressing. Start by gently licking his penis with your mouth, while using your hand to move the penis up and down. As he becomes more and more aroused, stop occasionally and ask him what feels good. If you feel comfortable, you can say some dirty things to enhance the atmosphere.
2. Dip Your Toe In the Deep End
We have all seen the scenes in pornographic films where girls magically insert a 10-inch-long penis into their mouths. Although it looks simple in the movies, the effect can sometimes be unsatisfactory in real life. You can combine the use of hands, mouth and tongue to simulate a deep throat. Use your hands to firmly grasp the base of his penis. Then wrap your lips around the underside of his foreskin. Move up and down, allowing your lips to touch the tip of the fist. In this way, he will be completely covered by you, feeling as if it's completely inside your mouth.
3. Blowjob Intermission
An awkward angle and a sore jaw can sometimes make prolonged oral sex difficult.Use your hand to gently touch his penis to the edge of your lips, and then hold the penis between your lips to increase the lubrication. This will help your chin rest during your interaction with your partner.
4. A Game of Hot or Cold
Temperature play is a great way to add variety to oral sex. For something cooler, sucking on a flavored popsicle right before you go down on him is bound to give him some tingly sensations. Better yet, warm up winter nights with a few sips of a heated beverage like a hot tea. The added heat from the small amount of tea in your mouth is sure to give rise to the blowjob occasion. Just don't get so much in your mouth that you choke on it. After all, you've got to fit a lot in there!
5. Win-Win
The more saliva you produce, the more they will like it. Fortunately, you don't have to use your mouth to create moisture. Using a flavoring lubricant will definitely enhance the oral sex experience and also mask bad breath, making your salivary glands work overtime. Its sweetness not only has a long-lasting aftertaste but also soothes the throat, allowing you to enjoy his love more deeply.
6. Explore Down Under
Most likely, you have already been using your tongue in various enticing ways down there. But here is a cunnilingus technique you might not have tried before - using the back of your tongue. The soft and smooth sensation makes the underside of his sheath (the back of the glans and the base of the penis) feel particularly good, as it is his nerve paradise. Hold the base of his penis and place your chin on the back of the penis. Use the back of your tongue to touch his "sweet spot", brushing it back and forth like a windshield wiper. Whenever you touch his pleasure point, be sure to stop.
7. Lickity Split
Don't think that licking the penis is like licking ice cream. Instead, focus on creating regular and sexy rhythms. This will make him extremely excited and give you the opportunity to get into the zone. A stable rhythm and different intensities help to build and maintain his excitement. A stable rhythm also enables him to reach climax faster. So if you feel that he is about to climax, slow down the rhythm and tease him when he is close to climax. In this way, he can experience a more prolonged and intense climax.
8. The Science of Suction
The key to oral sex lies in knowing when and where to suck. For those who don't understand, the suction is achieved by pressing the back of the tongue against the roof of the mouth and sliding it backward to create a vacuum. However, keep in mind that this only works within the first few inches. A few inches further in, the tongue becomes too weak to effectively create the sucking sensation. A good way to gauge the level of suction he likes is to have him suck on your finger. Observe him and you'll know the intensity he prefers, not to mention how aroused he becomes.
9. You Can Handle the Tooth
This may seem counterintuitive, but we're going to put this out there anyway. Gently and purposefully using your teeth can take your blowjob to the next level. The key is to act with intention so that you don't accidentally nip him and ruin the good time, and make him lose all trust in you. While he's in your mouth, gently glide the surface your teeth along his shaft and then trail with the softness of your tongue. Of course, we recommend you go slow at first. Once you get into your groove, look for clues in his response to see how it is working. If it makes him tense, then hit the brakes. When done properly, the mixture of hard and soft can be stellar.
10. Balls to the Wall
Don't ignore those two silly neighbors downstairs. His testicles are extremely sensitive, so even gentle holding or pressing them can make his whole body become active. If your mouth is tired, they are also good excuses to divert your attention and relax the muscles of your jaw. Gently lick the middle of the testicles with your tongue, then use the tip to circle each testicle. Repeat this until they become soft like jelly. Or, put them in your mouth and suck them carefully. Although they are large and strong, they are extremely fragile there, so be very careful when handling his testicles.