Expletives; Without a doubt, we are all familiar with them. Whispering mocking and suggestive nicknames in our lovers' ears and giggling - but how many of us actually use some sexy sayings during sex? Even the most talkative Cathy, when thinking about using some misleading phrase usages to make things awkward, also feels that it's correct; because expletives are not as easy as they sound.

Just like with any valuable matter, you must follow certain rules to ensure that your sexually suggestive language appears truly sexy - they are simple, but are often overlooked;

Set the Limit & Stay Within It

Becoming a professional swear word user begins even before you open your mouth. In fact, it starts when you open your ears. It's hard to explain every possible scenario, but at the very least, you should start with a basic concept, understanding which words your political party considers sexy and which ones are not. This can happen outside the bedroom, whether you're cooking dinner, watching a sexy movie scene, or scratching an itch while whispering "wet" in their ear over and over again.

After entering the bedroom, express to each other what you want to hear. You can simply say, "Tell me..." or "Call me your..." (whatever "..." might be). If your partner tries something that makes you feel cold? Instead of suddenly, try whispering in their ear, "Well, let's change to this..."

Set the Stage

Is your partner spanking? Are you? Will you use handcuffs to restrain them or put them in blindfolds to enhance the pleasure factor? Just say it! Sensuality revealing the plot will clearly indicate your intentions and make your partner anticipate what's coming. Moreover, it also gives them the opportunity to weigh whether they like your idea.

Recognize (and Respect) the Line Between Fantasy & Reality

When it comes to swear words, you never quite stick to your naughty narrative. Part of swearing is creating an imaginary world where anything you say can happen, but not every filthy fiction we imagine (even when shared with a partner) is something we actually want to experience.

Beginner’s Tip

So now you know how to use dirty words during sex. Now, what exactly would you say? How would you express yourself? The rule of thumb is that sex is contagious; if what you say can open you up, it will undoubtedly have the same effect on your partner.

Now that you have understood the ins and outs of dirty talk, please let them know during the next sensory encounter (even beforehand through pornographic text messages) what you are thinking about, what you are currently doing, and what you just did to them. But no matter what, maintain a good sense of humor about the situation you are in, because laughing together is something worth sharing.