Take a tie or a pair of stockings, wrap them around your partner's wrist. Then kiss them.

That's it. That's the constraint.

Although in reality you don't even need any restraining tools, you can simply tell your partner not to move. If they agree and don't move, that can also be considered a form of restraint!

When engaging in sexual activities or playing sexual games, being restrained can enhance sensory stimulation, sexual arousal and sexual pleasure. Just like all elements of pornography, your sexual preferences can also be as diverse as you wish. Some people like to loosely tie a scarf around their partner's wrist, while others install hooks on the wall and attach chains and handcuffs. Enjoy it in any way that makes both of you feel pleasurable.

Other slightly "scary" household items include belts or cling film. Then, you can purchase ropes, ties and chains from a hardware store. Or go to an adult goods store to buy colorful ropes (with various beautiful colors), binding tape (PVC tape that can be stuck together without adhesive), handcuffs (available in various materials, ranging from fluffy pink lamb wool to hard metal), or binding cuffs (which can be made of silk, feathers, velvet, suede, leather or metal).

Some people are obsessed with the art of Shibari, which is also known as "Shibari" in Japanese. This is indeed an art form that requires years of practice to master. The most basic part is just a simple bow knot used for binding; what's more complex is the intricate rope craftsmanship. It can be extremely beautiful and full of sensuality. Shibari

It concerns deep connections, sensory enjoyment, beauty and poetry.

For those who wield the rope, it is an item that brings sensory pleasure, used to please their partners. Moreover, they can gain a sense of satisfaction from demonstrating their rope-throwing skills, and also derive pleasure from the fact that the recipient gives up control.

For those who are bound, there is a wonderful feeling of being both restrained and released. This can lead one into a state often referred to as "ropic" or "sub-space", a change in consciousness, and a state of extreme bliss.

Just as I have always emphasized, there is a mutual responsibility involved here. Everyone needs to communicate about their progress with each other and let them know if it has gone too far. The key point always remains the shared pleasure.

So, when your partner is tied up, what will you do... ？ Well, as long as they agree, it can be whatever you want! It could be quite straightforward sexual activity, it could be sensory games using feathers and food, or it could be more intense, involving shock and pain.