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How should you incorporate using your hands?

Use your hands to add friction. Hold the base of his cock to control the pace of the action. Use a finger to stimulate his perineum. Or, if you've negotiated it, slip a lubricated finger or two in his ass, to stimulate his prostate directly.

What about the balls?

Most guys like their balls being cupped during a blowjob. You can also use a finger or two to put pressure on the perineum (the taint) for an external prostate massage. If you press on this, you can really enhance a man's orgasm.

"Is deep throating required?

No, it's not essential. Many people aim to master deep throating, as it can create an incredible sensation for both individuals involved. The key is aligning your throat's natural curve with the natural bend of his penis. For beginners, attempt this with him lying on his back while you position yourself on your side. Maintain a grip on the base of his penis to control the speed. When you approach your limit, swallowing can help you take him deeper and open your throat wider. Avoid deep throating on a full stomach. Alternatively, you can mimic the deep throat feeling by combining a masturbation sleeve on his shaft with oral stimulation focused on the head of his penis."

Does it matter whether you spit it out or swallow it?

It depends on you, but make sure to communicate in advance. If you and your partner do not have any bodily fluids exchange, please use a condom.

What are the reasons for a man's inability to have an erection? If so, should one try to overcome it?

There could be many reasons - erectile dysfunction, alcohol abuse, drug use, stress or fatigue. Sometimes, even if he has sexual desire, the penis is unable to function. Don't exert force. Try another approach. Don't make a big deal out of it.

What is the best secret to giving oral sex to someone?

The best oral sex is truly an amazing manual activity. Most men require more friction than what the mouth can provide, so a truly excellent oral sex experience often involves pulling the penis with hands while using the mouth to enhance stimulation and suction simultaneously.