What exactly is the charm that men possess in the eyes of women? This is an age-old question that has perhaps always puzzled humanity.
Perhaps you are the kind of person who keeps repeating some tacky witty remarks in the bar, hoping that one of them will work.
Perhaps you are such a person. Even though you wear a good perfume, are witty and humorous, and have great charm, you still seem unable to get women to look at you.
Perhaps you are the last among your friends to have found a partner, and this indeed makes you start to have profound feelings.
No matter what your reasons are, if you want to understand the factors that attract women, you need to deeply, deeply understand your true nature as a man. You must abandon those myths and discover some real truths.
Misconceptions about How to Attract Women
Whether it's casual chatting in the common changing room or being deeply ingrained through some means via social media, there are some notable misunderstandings regarding how to attract women, and these misunderstandings are far from the truth.
You might spend an entire day discussing this topic, but the two most common ones are:
To attract women, one needs a lot of money.
Certain physical features are necessary to attract women.
The problem with these two common lies is that they are usually beyond your control.
You can work hard as much as you like, but you may never have a lot of money. Even in today's society where plastic surgery is available, certain physical features cannot be changed.
You probably won't win the lottery in the near future. Moreover, it's hard to say whether you can have the physique of a Greek deity and grow a few more inches taller.
Break these two myths and understand what truly attracts women.
Men's Sexual Attraction to Women: 20 Practical Tips
1. Be confident
2. Just be kind
3. Make her laugh
4. Show her that you can be selfless
5. Be an active listener and an apt communicator
6. Practice being a non-needy man
7. Be (reasonably) honest about your flaws
8. Know your goals and have sincere values
9. Avoid being a stereotypical male creature of habit
10. Invest in yourself
11. Be a man of status by defining your purpose
12. Send out some positive vibes
13. Avoid placing emphasis on the outcome
14. Don't be afraid to be vulnerable
15. Mind your manners
16. Take some pride in your self and your health
17. Let her see that you can take the lead when needed
18. Stay in-tune with the world, educate yourself, and be informed
19. Show her you can be a family-oriented man
20. Know when to be forward with a woman